Thursday, December 18, 2008

Relationships between stepparents and stepchildren

The relationship between a stepparent can be good or bad in reality but mostly only goes on way in stories or films. The way it goes in reality is just depending on how well you get alnog with that parent or child. In Finction and films its mostly a bad relasionship for both the parent and kid witch causes problems. Theres also going back and forth for visiting the other parents witch is a pain.

For examle in the story Cindarella the stepmother is the most viole mean person there could be but to he own kids shes nice. This also happens in harry potter with harry and his uncle and ant. They buy there kid all the presnt in the world for him and when it comes to harry he can go and die for all they care. In movies its the same way it always go to the wickied stepmother or father.

I have all the experience i could ever want from this because i have a stepmother and a stepfather. These realtionships i share are stong because i know that ethir on of them would give there life for mine at any time. Witch makes me feel welcome and like they accept me.

There are many conflicts that you have to over come because you are meeting a new person and they cant go away so if you dont like them then thats jsut going to make your life a whole lot harder when you dont. The first problem is geting to know them then theres the bonding because you can still miss your real parent and dont want him/her around you. Theres the fact of if you ever call him/her dad/mom and if you will accept him as familly.

The are lots of good advantages in these kinds of relation ships like Getting more presients or more people you can trust and talk to if you have a bad day. Thiers more people to watch out for you. Another good thing is that if you become close to this person they can be really cool and you can have a wonderful time with them. Theres also more familly you can meet and love so in the long run as long as you get along with them it is a wonderful relationship.

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